Posted on February 23, by Scott Alexander [Content warning:
Why does my wife feed our kids a steady diet of junk food? Does she want them to be obese? My ex allows our year old daughter to sleep in the same bed with her. What the hell is going on? My ex seems to get mad when I spend time with our kids and take them places or buy them little gifts or new school clothes.
Many men and women in my practice have made the above observations and asked the above questions. The subject of maternal sabotage is also one of the many common themes on the Shrink4Men Forum. The cognitive dissonance this subject creates cannot be underestimated.
Most parents want the best for their children. Good parents want to provide the best education possible for their kids and will move school districts, participate in lotteries and pay high tuition rates in order to obtain it.
Good parents want their kids to thrive and grow up to be successful, independent adults. Most parents work hard to help their children become as or more successful than they are.
More likely, her mask of super mom, single martyr mom or victim of my POS ex-husband mom has slipped and she has revealed which parent is the actual problem. Oftentimes, this individual weaponizes shared children and engages in parental alienation. She may also try to impoverish you by using the courts to extort as much child and spousal support as possible.
Instead, the ex wants to keep the child in an expensive private school. She manufactured some very lame reasons about it not being fair to their younger child if the older sibling is able to get a better education. Additionally, this kind of individual does not seem to have any qualms about hurting the children in order to hurt you.
As you probably already know, hurting the children is often the very best way to hurt you. She believes she is entitled to unilateral control over the children. She often sees the children as her property and you are expected to pay a Golden Uterus rental fee for the rest of your life.
You are then expected to pony up. To show you who is in control. And if the children get hurt as a result, she will blame you.
Emotionally and psychologically speaking, this is often true. These individuals can be incredibly immature and seem to be stuck at an early age of emotional development. Morality and religious beliefs about premarital sex aside, the simple fact of the matter is that children have not reached the optimal emotional maturity or intellectual capacity to be parents.
The same is true of parents who are children in adult bodies. The possibility that her child may surpass her scholastically, in attractiveness, in popularity, in physical fitness, in athletic ability, etc. The opposite can also be true. This is a particularly insidious form of abuse and, in some ways, is the opposite of child parentification.
Garber, PhD explains: Oftentimes, children who are being infantilized may develop depression, anxiety, developmental delays and may even be misdiagnosed with an autism spectrum disorder. The above list is by no means exhaustive. Palmatier, PsyD helps individuals work through their relationship and codependency issues via telephone or Skype.After Rockefeller’s unceremonious ejection, the yacht was then buzzed by Blackhawk helicopters before French fighter jets gave a warning pass overhead, whereupon the helicopters retreated.
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